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I had just been given a free pass to do something about that should I so choose without any consequence at all! I walked away from that conversation with a new respect for our marriage and how cool we both were. I was raised in a very southern baptist home and brainwashed with a ton of abstinence bullshit (proud escapee of the church-matrix going on 10 years now) so I must admit that I had carried around a small bit of regret that I had missed out on my opportunity to вЂњplay the fieldвЂќ sexually in college and that I would never have that opportunity again. At that moment, I couldnвЂ™t help but feel like I had been handed a golden ticket. She, on the other hand, was sexually active at an early age and with multiple partners. I had several girlfriends before meeting my wife but she was the first woman I ever had sex with. At the time I remember feeling a little dumbfounded that I was actually having this conversation and amazed that these words were coming out of our mouths and that my wife had initiated the whole thing. Keep in mind that nothing like this has every come up before in 8 years of marriage and 12+ years of knowing each other. if it was to ever happen you had to be completely honest and safe about it / no sneaking around we both have veto power at any time over a specific person, circumstance, or the whole idea altogether (or so I thought?. we agreed that if circumstances ever arose where someone wanted to have the experience of having sex with someone else it would be allowed as long as it did not interfere with time spent with each-other, with our child, and did not take away emotional capacity for each other we felt our relationship had reached the point where it transcended traditional monogamy norms / that either person could potentially have sex with someone else and that it wouldnвЂ™t impact the core foundation of our relationship or our love

we felt our love for each other was stronger than ever and iron-clad

This was a long and unexpected conversation but the gist of it and concluding agreed-upon points ended up being: We were sitting on the couch after having gotten the little one to bed and eaten dinner (including a couple of glasses of wine mind you) when she brought up the subject of monogamy and having an open/semi-open relationship. This is a hard story to tell.ДЄbout two months ago I had an odd/surprising conversation with my wife. I would characterize our relationship and marriage up until the last few weeks as as epic. Let me preface all of this by saying that I really love my wife. We have a 17 month old daughter that has me tourniquet-wrapped around her little finger already. We dated for a little over a year prior to that and were friends for about three years before that. I'm a 30 year old male and have been married to my wife (age 29) for 8 years. Major apologies for length but I feel all of this detail is necessary :-/

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